Tuesday, May 22, 2012

The Positive and Negative of it…

What is Plus without a minus….

What is positive without a negative…

What is Good without a bad….

What is Life without a death…

What is Happiness without sadness….

What is Victory without a defeat….

What is pass without a fail…

What is High without a Low….

What is Right without a Wrong….

What is Love without a Hate….

Without the negativities…we will never appreciate the Positivities….the fun, the adrenaline, the high, the appreciation all will be lost to us…We got to learn to take the negativities with the positivities….

Thursday, May 10, 2012

Silence….

A child is not breastfed by its mother until it cries – Anonymous

Silence is not understood by everybody. Expressing ones thoughts, ones feelings is very important. Unless things are discussed there is rarely a chance of solving the issue fast.

Silence is often misunderstood as arrogance. People feel that the person is not approachable.

Silence is often misunderstood as Non-dependency. People feel that the person is self dependent…can handle own affairs.

Silence is often misunderstood as Self-sufficiency. People feel that the person has got all one wants

But all said not everybody is vocal about their issue. Not all feel that everything needs to be discussed with others…for different reasons….maybe not wanting to trouble others…maybe ashamed to discuss…there can be many issues…

Sometimes Silence can have adverse results…and by the time one realises that matters have worsened by remaining Silent, it is too late.

Silence is not golden…that can be assured….

It is not easy for people who are not vocal….but remaining silent is not going to help at all…..

Thursday, April 26, 2012

Whats in a Name???

Whats in a Name??? Everything in this modern world. Parents have to think a lot nowadays when naming their kids. After all the current generation of kids dont want to spend their lifetime with a name which they dont like!!!

Think about it…can anybody name their kids Laloo or Rabri anymore? The kids will run away from school on day one!!!

Take the case of my own grandfather….with due respect to him….but will any child today be ready to live with a name as Lalchand.

Kids today are much smarter…and they certainly will object to any non urban name in school for themselves.

Certain names were a norm in the yesteryears…. but not anymore. One wont even dare think of naming their kids Amitabh, Mithun, Phoolan, …they just dont fit anymore into the urban lifestyles!!

Cant imagine kid with names like….Rakeshchandra….Harishchandra…Sudhakar…Champaklal…Hiralal…Maghanlal…Chaggan…

Gone are the days of religious names…Saraswati..Hanuman(yes i know of 2 people living with this name!!!)…Prathna…

The point being..nowadays Names are to be very carefully selected….else be ready to hear a bit or two about it from your kiddo!!!

Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Of Facebook Relatives and mobile numbers…

facebookgeneric295story So when one has free time, s/he starts marking Uncles, Aunts, Cousins on Facebook. Set up the relationships. Not bad till one starts receiving calls for a certain relation from collection agencies.

The social network boom has got almost every person hooked on it. And Bank and Credit card defaulters better beware. Collection agencies have now started tapping Facebook to find the elusive persons or have started contacting the relatives for recovery.

Now how do they contact the relatives? Simple thru their mobile numbers which have been posted on the profiles!!!

Read a few newspaper articles about such incidences. Got to know of one such incidence yesterday thru a cousin. Infact read one article in the newspaper in which a Collection agency agent befriended an elusive defaulter on Facebook, arranged for a meet, where he found that the real intention was to recover his dues.

Ones intention of setting up relations is not bad, but cant certainly get you in trouble if your relative is that elusive defaulter…….

But yes…posting of mobile numbers should certainly be thought of again!!!

Sources :

http://www.dnaindia.com/mumbai/report_that-sexy-facebooker-is-a-recovery-agent_1478225

http://www.ndtv.com/article/cities/recovery-agents-harass-defaulters-kin-on-facebook-134654

http://www.goanewsonline.com/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=6830

Monday, April 23, 2012

Western Express HIGHWAY(?)

Having been driving on the Western Express Highway of Mumbai since past 9 years now, I consider myself somewhat an expert of that road. So much so that I thought of writing this blog and also trying and making the Traffic Commissioner read this.

I have seen the highway grow…from a plain road to flyovers, from bottle necks to wide roads. But still its not enough. The traffic jams just do not reduce. Infact its a shame to call it a Highway anymore.

So let me rant off my wisdom…if anybody is interested…

I simply dont understand what is the use of flyovers when there are traffic jams at the exit 58927_460152299602_547424602_6626299_4390008_nends…either because of Nakabandi by police(currently observed daily at the north end of Andheri flyover) or because BEST busstops are hardly 100 meters away from the end of the flyovers(south end of Malad flyover). These busstops dont only create a traffic jams because of buses stopping there, it also because of rickshaw drivers and other vehicles stopping there trying to woo the harried bus travelers who are getting late because the bus has not come in yet.

One more observation I have made is that the beginning of flyovers are being used by private buses as a collection point. This leads to a bottleneck thus leading to slowing of traffic.

We are a major city with no facility of immediate removal of breakdown vehicles or vehicles involved in accidents. Neither have we demarked any service lane to move such vehicles. Some vehicles are allowed to be repaired right in the middle of the road, which is one more reason for the jams.

Driving slow in the fast lane is one more headache. There are various kinds of drivers in this category…the rickshaw drivers, the busy on the mobile drivers, the lady drivers. They take pride in keeping the lane ahead of them totally empty, leader of the pack of the long line of cars behind them. The busy on the phone drivers are still ok as they wake up from their slumber moment the call is over and speed up again…the remaining two…less spoken of the better!!! Our Traffic department knows of only asking for fine for overspeeding not for underspeeding.

Oh forgot the old uncles, who are out there in the fast lane to protest against the fast cars. No matter how many cars overtake them, they drive at their own leisurely speed, reminding us of their times when cars never used to touch even 50 KMPH!!! ( I dont think they understand my sign of middle finger also )

Dedicated public crossings seem to be decided not by the traffic departments, but by the public and the local politicians. Dividers disappear overnight, barbed wires are effortlessly cut to create a new gap for the local public to cross. Forget public crossings, at some places U-turns appear overnight creating trouble to the cars.

Sigh!! I can go on and on and on…..

I know the traffic department alone is not to be blamed , even we as the citizens are responsible for most of this mess. But then when rules are implement strictly( and not just to pocket the money by enforcers), things can change….but who is going to bell the cat….