The Positive and Negative of it…

What is Plus without a minus….

What is positive without a negative…

What is Good without a bad….

What is Life without a death…

What is Happiness without sadness….

What is Victory without a defeat….

What is pass without a fail…

What is High without a Low….

What is Right without a Wrong….

What is Love without a Hate….

Without the negativities…we will never appreciate the Positivities….the fun, the adrenaline, the high, the appreciation all will be lost to us…We got to learn to take the negativities with the positivities….

Silence….

A child is not breastfed by its mother until it cries – Anonymous

Silence is not understood by everybody. Expressing ones thoughts, ones feelings is very important. Unless things are discussed there is rarely a chance of solving the issue fast.

Silence is often misunderstood as arrogance. People feel that the person is not approachable.

Silence is often misunderstood as Non-dependency. People feel that the person is self dependent…can handle own affairs.

Silence is often misunderstood as Self-sufficiency. People feel that the person has got all one wants

But all said not everybody is vocal about their issue. Not all feel that everything needs to be discussed with others…for different reasons….maybe not wanting to trouble others…maybe ashamed to discuss…there can be many issues…

Sometimes Silence can have adverse results…and by the time one realises that matters have worsened by remaining Silent, it is too late.

Silence is not golden…that can be assured….

It is not easy for people who are not vocal….but remaining silent is not going to help at all…..